Have patience. When you start playing, you will quickly notice that Travian is a slow paced game at the start and that it takes you weeks or months to get anywhere. Therefore, the first principle is: have patience! Even though development may seem slow at times, keep the longer-term goals in mind and you will notice you are getting ever closer to them.
Follow the directions of your leader. We are going places and you have just joined. You will understand in time. Trust us. We trust you.